Virginity: The Character Parameter

Doesn't it make a section of men feel retard to judge a beautiful soul based on her hymen? Is it machismo to cheat a girl, dump her, move on and marry another? What shall happen to the girl? Apart from a psychological break down because of break up and instead of a support, she finds a man who refuses to be with her after he finds out that she went along with someone else. Is it the story of two men showing their machismo or the prevalence of a retarded uncultured society?

Instead of blaming her for sleeping with another man why can't he step ahead and try to act matured while trying to understand her. A man who judges a girl on her virginity has always found love in the vagina. A man who can't stand the fact that his wife had slept with someone else has  no right to even ask a girl out for a date. Even if the man hasn't even been with anyone else before he shouldn't  react if his partner isn't a virgin and instead he should try to be supportive to the person who had been a victim of false promises.

What if a retarded uncultured finds out that there was no blood spill on his first night? Does that mean that his partner isn't a virgin? Couldn't he think a little matured that she might be adventurous and sporty and could have been associated with cycling, horse riding or swimming? Or on the contrary what if another retarded uncultured finds out blood spill on his first night? Should he cherish his achievement of finding someone virgin or should he read a little about hymenorrhaphy?

Instead of developing our notion for someone based on her virginity we must try to respect her for what she is from her inside. Virginity isn't any character parameter. It is simply ignorance and prevalence of an uncultured society.

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